I like Cowboy Be-Bop and Ghost In The Shell series. As far as the schoolgirl fetish animes, I'm not a huge fan. FMA is OK as well, I just haven't seen enough of that series to adequately comment.
On the point made above, that because the fetishists in Japan have an outlet, I agree fully. In our "free" country, we seem to be so hung up about nudity, sex, and education about both, that we create more 'philes', than anyone will care to admit. I worked at an adult nightclub by Sea-Tac airport at the time when the cities were all clamoring to adopt the 6-Foot Rule. Citing that strip clubs promulgated rape, disease, prostitution, all the sins of humanity and adultery blah blah blah.... when the truth is just the opposite. Those contractors who entertained men in an adult environment, were kept OFF the streets as hookers and disease spreading women of ill repute. The men who patronized the clubs were less likely to actually go out and rape someone, (sorry I cannot provide actual data or studies that agree with this, or statistics, or articles written in science publications..... but they do exist somewhere.). A look at other countries sex crime stats confirm this notion, and they have nudity in the TV commercials, for petes' sake!