Get Marc Denny's DLO cd and it will answer your question.
http://www.amazon.com/Die-Less-Often-Introduction-Interface/dp/B000W7SSOG
http://www.amazon.com/Die-Less-Often-Bringing-Attack/dp/B001KNSRRO
marshaul...SA foremost...sorry if i saw the man learing and lurking behind a tree (here little boy i have candy for you...), hand behind his back bouncing back and forth, i am afraid i would already have my pistol out in the ready position and as soon as the bloke started and showed his weapon of choice he would have been dropped...
A kick to the crotch can give you a little more time as well. The general rules of a guy fighting a guy are out the window if your life is threatened.
3 DVD set, 1 new from $159.95
Single DVD, 1 new from $59.95
Not exactly reasonably/popularly priced are they? Yeah I know, my life is worth more than that.
Also I am not exactly a fan of Gabe Suarez.
Oh? Care to say why? I'd be interested in your take on Gabe.
On the 'why would people stand still and wait to be attacked?' question, if someone is trying to deploy their firearm, they often are 'rooted' to the ground. Thus the drill to 'get off the "X"'. Why do they have this drill? Well, one of the OODA loop problems is we are trying to see our firearm/keys/OC spray or whatever when having tunnel vision and you tend to 'freeze' when startled, and maybe shout 'Ah-ah-ah'. (or I do).
It takes some training not to freeze while you're trying to operate your gear. Do the same drill with a rubber knife and a tame foe and you're very agile. It's weird. Some people are movers, some are 'freezers' when the REAL threat comes at you. (it's hard to get a 'real' threat simulated in training, btw).