Tanner
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Sorry in advance with the long post. Here is my story in a big nutshell. Broke up with my fieance of almost 8 years. As far as break ups go it was about as good as it could get. But since I was driving over the road in a tractor trailer I did eventually over thing everything because all you have time to do when you drive for a living is think. We were driving together and tried to stay over OTR (over the road) together to finish the summer. Needless to say I couldent do it. So she stayed in upstate NY while I finished out the summer OTR. I get back to VA about two weeks before her and used that time to move my stuff out.
She ended up coming back sooner than expected and things started to turn ugly when she did a 180 in how she started treating me. This all goes with out saying that in some way I did deserve it because I made some hurtfull acusation out of illogical worry about her moving on. I NEVER at any point threatend her with any kind of violence what so ever at anytime in 8 years. But for some reason (my guess is its a defence) she starts treating me like I have. When she told me that she was going to be back sooner it turned into a "get your sh!t out now" kinda thing.
This throws up a red flag for one reason. She had my identity. Birthcertificate, social security card, credit card, and other things of that nature. She says this was a mistake. At the time it was a what ever but once she started with the "I cant be in the apartment without her knowing" stuff it turned into a "I want my papers as soon as you get it town" kind of thing. Also should mention that my name is still on the lease. I had told her that if she wasent willing to give me my papers I will bring the police and get them. ( I assume that she would have been able to give them to the police to give to me).
Ok almost done. At this point I got the papers without the police (she gave them to my dad), But now at the end of september she is moving back to NY. We have a great dane that I would like to see once or twice before she leaves. Now how does this all relate to OC? well I intend to OC everwhere I go so my thoughts are that she may try something fishy with acusing me of something. My assumption is if we even end up seeing each other she will have her friend with her. I am worried about him and her both trying to make a situation about things. I do carry a recorder and will have it running. I know according to law pets are considered property. So wonder if I have any rights to tonka. (my dog)
I figured I bring this up. Maby someone has advice or offer some heads up as it relates to OC. Again I want to say I have never once in 8 years threatened her at all. She has no reason to belive that I would. I dont really trust her though anymore and am worried about this. Any thoughts would be welcomed. Sorry for the life story. I know its a very personal thing to put out there. I just want to be prepared for whatever could happen.
She ended up coming back sooner than expected and things started to turn ugly when she did a 180 in how she started treating me. This all goes with out saying that in some way I did deserve it because I made some hurtfull acusation out of illogical worry about her moving on. I NEVER at any point threatend her with any kind of violence what so ever at anytime in 8 years. But for some reason (my guess is its a defence) she starts treating me like I have. When she told me that she was going to be back sooner it turned into a "get your sh!t out now" kinda thing.
This throws up a red flag for one reason. She had my identity. Birthcertificate, social security card, credit card, and other things of that nature. She says this was a mistake. At the time it was a what ever but once she started with the "I cant be in the apartment without her knowing" stuff it turned into a "I want my papers as soon as you get it town" kind of thing. Also should mention that my name is still on the lease. I had told her that if she wasent willing to give me my papers I will bring the police and get them. ( I assume that she would have been able to give them to the police to give to me).
Ok almost done. At this point I got the papers without the police (she gave them to my dad), But now at the end of september she is moving back to NY. We have a great dane that I would like to see once or twice before she leaves. Now how does this all relate to OC? well I intend to OC everwhere I go so my thoughts are that she may try something fishy with acusing me of something. My assumption is if we even end up seeing each other she will have her friend with her. I am worried about him and her both trying to make a situation about things. I do carry a recorder and will have it running. I know according to law pets are considered property. So wonder if I have any rights to tonka. (my dog)
I figured I bring this up. Maby someone has advice or offer some heads up as it relates to OC. Again I want to say I have never once in 8 years threatened her at all. She has no reason to belive that I would. I dont really trust her though anymore and am worried about this. Any thoughts would be welcomed. Sorry for the life story. I know its a very personal thing to put out there. I just want to be prepared for whatever could happen.