Freedom1Man
Regular Member
So, I have a family member that hates it when I OC. She claims that it makes her uncomfortable. I pointed out that there are other people around the area that OC and she told me that those people make her uncomfortable too but that's their right. I told her that if she is so uncomfortable with OC then why do you like cops so much? She responds badly to this. She tells it me that I am just putting my gun in people's faces (if I was 10' tall that might be true I carry OC on my thigh). I said no, I am not required to have a license to OC but I need a license to CC, and besides the cops are not very well trained. (This varies from cop to cop to I know but look at New York.) I also told her that is she is so afraid of guns that she should get counseling.
If I wish to visit with this family member I am told that I can only CC when I am out in public with her. I asked why is that? Because I said so.
Now this is the same member of the family who came home the other night to 6 police cars stopped 2-3 (it's hard to explain) houses over walking around with 'big guns' around 2300 hours that night and then asks me if I know what they might be. I showed her my AR15 and she said they looked like that. So I told her they are likely the M4 combat rifles. Not being sure of the original question of "Do you know what guns the cops carry?" I told her it depends on the department but many of the in this state carry Glocks the same make and model I carry on my leg.
She keeps claiming she is not anti-gun but likes new guns law and hates it when people open carry because she can see their gun.
She didn't like it when I refused to visit her one Christmas because I could not carry while visiting. She changed her mind after that because I would not visit at all if those were the conditions.
I am former military, one brother and my sister are military and she does not trust any of us with guns.
How do you handle family members/friends who are like that?
If I wish to visit with this family member I am told that I can only CC when I am out in public with her. I asked why is that? Because I said so.
Now this is the same member of the family who came home the other night to 6 police cars stopped 2-3 (it's hard to explain) houses over walking around with 'big guns' around 2300 hours that night and then asks me if I know what they might be. I showed her my AR15 and she said they looked like that. So I told her they are likely the M4 combat rifles. Not being sure of the original question of "Do you know what guns the cops carry?" I told her it depends on the department but many of the in this state carry Glocks the same make and model I carry on my leg.
She keeps claiming she is not anti-gun but likes new guns law and hates it when people open carry because she can see their gun.
She didn't like it when I refused to visit her one Christmas because I could not carry while visiting. She changed her mind after that because I would not visit at all if those were the conditions.
I am former military, one brother and my sister are military and she does not trust any of us with guns.
How do you handle family members/friends who are like that?