I think you vastly overestimate the reaction of the general population regarding OC. The actions of a few 'knee jerk' people manage to make the evening news.
Yes, there are a few attention seekers that try to precipitate contentious interactions with law enforcement, but the vast majority go about our daily business while OCing, with absolutely ZERO drama.
You are likely to find people more sympathetic to your point of view on a forum that is not dedicated to using open carry as a tool to educate the average person, and / or as a tactical choice.
Finally someone here that can have an adult conversation - I really appreciate that.
It's that using "open carry as a tool to educate the average person" that I have a problem with. That's really sums it up. And I think that is the difference between those that OC and those that CC. One focuses more on education, political and social statements, while the other only focuses on personal defense. I don't have much training yet, but what training I've had, I was taught that my carry weapon is nothing more than a tool for personal defense, nothing more. And I couldn't see myself attending any training that has using your carry weapon as a tool to educate the public as part of its class curriculum.