What is not popular on OCDO is constant sniping and negative insinuations. You should take heed to that regard. Pushing the limit on what is acceptable here is not a way to insure your continued enjoyment of this forum.
It has been said countless ways that educating and training are good - one can never have too much. Even at that, the lack of same should not preclude anyone from the right of self- defense.
Also continued misdirection/sidetracking/highjacking of a thread is bad form. In this thread the OP has asked for "first handgun suggestions" - the rest is off-topic.
Sorry for the negative posts. I think its the overall mindset of most OCers that drives me nuts and brings out the total ***** in me. It's weird how carry method can create two different mindsets/tactics, or lack there of. Because I don't OC, I really haven't learned a whole lot here, since this forum is restricted solely to something I don't do. So I may not stop by too often. I used to post here, then stopped for a little while, then came back for another try. But in all honesty it's a waste of my time. Yeah I know, don't let the door hit ya in the ass on the way out.