After some thought and conversation with others I have made a decision.
Freedom1Man and EMNofSeattle, I am asking you not to come to this monthly coffee event or others that I organize.
I had gathered from your postings and I have confirmed with my own observations that I do not feel that your presence is welcome when I am around.
I asked 3 times for you to be softer in your projection of your voice, to be met with continued overbearing conversation. Speaking louder does not make your point of view correct. Listening and respecting others builds respect. 'First seek to understand, then be understood.'
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I have spent the last 3 years on this forum protecting my reputation and realizing that when I associate with OCDO members my reputation is the only thing that I truly own. I will not associate with others that threaten my reputation. And I feel that association with both of you threatens me reputation. I do not wish that any person, business or entity to not view my reputation as favorable and with integrity.
~nick
p.s. I understand that these events occur in a public space and you are free to show up and disregard my request. I will simply leave. I have spoken with many who have encountered you both and have similar concerns. Many don't post on the forum often and many don't attend meet and greets because of concerns like I have expressed.