We have found that it is often better to follow the "Post it and they will come" rule. Don't ask who is up for breakfast/lunch/dinner/snacks/coffee or ask where everybody would like to meet. Pick a place, pick a time, and tell folks you will be there.
It is nice to see a Marylander coming to Virginia to experience what gun freedom is like. Is there any chance we could convince you to mover here (even if it means you would be in Northern Virginia)?