We had a meet a coulpe months ago at 54th street with no issues. The lady and I go to applebees at 40 and Sterling a lot for there appitisers with no problems and there is always a KCPD there for security and never said a word. I hop close by is good. Walmart of corse is good fire house subs is good also. QT are always good for starters. Blockbuster, lowes, chilies, dennys. Independence/Kc border is a vary OC "friendly".
Caseys general store is good also. Hi-vee is good but the price chopper in independence sucks. Golden coral is now OC friendly. We had a meet there also one month
Hope that helps.