Nice write up. My girl friend and I have been trying to figure something out that works for her. I am skinny but I can pull off hiding my little .380 just about anywhere. I can even make a full size disappear with a small amount of effort. She's roughly the same size as I am so I figured it would work for her too. But when it came down to trying to conceal on her I finally came to the conclusion of "Wow, you are not shaped like I am AT ALL..." Yes, men and women are very different. So that was my "Duh" statement of the day.
For her, she has a very long upper body. She can't really find shirts that will cover her butt. Appendix carry makes her look like she has a package. Small of the back looks like she has a tail. It hides a little better at 3 o'clock. But in general, she definitely can't pull it off with her normal jeans and a t shirt wardrobe. So whereas I had to change absolutely nothing to CC, she is going to have to change everything. No more jeans (at least not ones that are tight), and no more t-shirts without a cover garment.
I like that she shows off her figure some and I don't want to change that, and neither does she. So finding something that works may be challenging. I will pass this along to her. Thanks for posting!