it's more like when I was growing up out in the "sticks", we had dogs, and as long as they were providing some protection and security around the place, we fed them and kept them, even growing fond of them, but when they started causing problems, like killing the neighbors chickens, or biting the bread man, Dad, PUT THEM DOWN!
It was the same with snakes. Certain types we let be because they kept other types of snakes and the vermin population fairly in check, but when they got too "familiar", dad showed them the business end of his 'thunder stick". We let them stay because as long as they were doing their job and nothing "extra", they were "wanted", not "needed".
So feel free to use dog or snake interchangeably, if you start being a problem instead of a solution, I don't really mind when any of you take an extended unpaid leave, but no, it's not hate, and by the way, there are many, many other "just plain folks" willing to go the extra mile, fight to the ultimate end with their bare hands or with whatever they can find, without body armor, without backup, without "qualified immunity", without pay, without thanks, without a thought for themselves, and they may not even be wearing so much as jeans or a T-shirt, or be particularly courteous, and might never be called professional or disciplined, but will also be there when it counts, and yes, some people hate them too!
I would like you to consider that you cannot provide me a safe home. You will never be able to provide me a safe home. I must make my own home as safe as I can and not rely on others. My safety, and the safety of my family, and the safety of my home and possessions are my responsibility alone. If you want to lend a helping hand, fine, but don't get in my way.
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Jeremiah 29 vs. 11-13
we are not equal, we will never be equal, but we must be relentless.