Please explain the difference between "worthiness" and involving the law as a last resort. Isn't that merely a matter of degree?
Sorry if I get the impression you're being willfully obtuse. I may be mistaken, but when you asked what I consider "worthy of pressing charges", it seemed to me that it was intended to be an ethical question, one of justice. I am not speaking to the justice of the matter; merely the incredibly predictable manner in which the current state was precipitated by the involvement of the law.
Somewhere in there, I would love to learn just what would constitute a "last resort".
Nah, I'm not going to be baited into specifying some arbitrary bright line. I'll tell you what
isn't a last resort, though: the OP's case. :lol:
Wait, here's one for you: if you can, as an OCer, assume that the involvement of the law comes with a free brandishing conviction from the state of Virginia (not a wildly unreasonable assumption given recent history, and as you yourself can attest
) and/or temporary loss of RKBA rights, and still decide it's worth it, then it probably qualifies as a "last resort".
Seriously guys, I'm not trying to be combative, or argumentative just for the sake of it. I've seen this sort of thing time and time again: after a spat or fight, one person gets a restraining order, the other person retaliates in like manner, the headaches long outlast the original injury, and ultimately nobody benefits. Better to walk away, I say, and give them the opportunity to do the same. Plus, you can – and should – shun the aggressor later (which, frankly, is at least as effective as a restraining order). But really – you didn't pay a cent for this advice, and are free to value it accordingly.
BTW, I've seen your remarks regarding DMB, so, yeah, the comparison constitutes a personal attack.
Don't worry, I'm not offended; I just call it like I see it – I've never been one for paper-thin veneers. (Are you related to eye95?)