Well, he also says in the video that keeping silent can be used against you too !
So what to do, what to do?
Why you file a notice of no contact to stop these "consensual encounters" all together.
Then when a cop says "Hey, can we talk?" Your response is not "No." or some other retort but "Why are you violating my order of no contact? Give me your name, address, and birthday." And let the fun begin.