Dutch Uncle
Campaign Veteran
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As usual, Danbus dealt with an aggravating situation very well. I would have been both angry and annoyed, which would have made it difficult for me to handle things with Dan's characteristic aplomb.
It is always easy to be a Monday morning quarterback, but after talking with Dan, I put myself in the situation, and decided that when the LEO asked me to stay, but indicated I wasn't being detained, I would have given him my card, written my cell phone number on the back and said "Officer, I've been very patient, but I've done nothing illegal, and I want to be on my way. Here's my card and phone number. If you or the store people need to discuss this further, feel free to call me and I will certainly get back to you. Bye, now". I can't imagine how any LEO could be upset by such an approach, since it shows one to be polite, above-board and civil, without being submissive.
I've got a VCDL membership card around here somewhere; maybe I'll make some copies of that to put in my wallet. That would really say it all.....
As usual, Danbus dealt with an aggravating situation very well. I would have been both angry and annoyed, which would have made it difficult for me to handle things with Dan's characteristic aplomb.
It is always easy to be a Monday morning quarterback, but after talking with Dan, I put myself in the situation, and decided that when the LEO asked me to stay, but indicated I wasn't being detained, I would have given him my card, written my cell phone number on the back and said "Officer, I've been very patient, but I've done nothing illegal, and I want to be on my way. Here's my card and phone number. If you or the store people need to discuss this further, feel free to call me and I will certainly get back to you. Bye, now". I can't imagine how any LEO could be upset by such an approach, since it shows one to be polite, above-board and civil, without being submissive.
I've got a VCDL membership card around here somewhere; maybe I'll make some copies of that to put in my wallet. That would really say it all.....