I've had my XD45 Compact for about a year now and it's been flawless. It's a great shooter. The XD Gear Package has pretty much stayed in the plastic case though. The holster isn't that great and kind of sticks out too far for my liking, the mag holders are pretty much the same story. If you want to use them on the range, they'd probably be fine. For concealed carry, I wouldn't bother, go aftermarket for better results. For OC, they'd work fine I guess.
No feeding issues at all with my XD. It's fed every hollow point I've tried. I've hard that it may have issues with SWC though, but I don't shoot those so I haven't experienced it personally.