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Vegas_Dave wrote:
Yeah,
He did seem a little aprehensive as we walked into the back inventory lot though. Both he and his manager (I met them both simultaneously) assumed I was LEO.
I just told him, nope, private citizen & businessman, just protecting myself.
I get the same thing -- alot of dumb looks. A guy who's not a buy, but who has a gun, and is in here buying something rather than robbing me? Does not compute.
OTOH, Pizza delivery guy was very curious the other day, asking about how to get a permit, etc. Though I have a CCW, I rarely volunteer the fact and indicate that no permit is necessary. Most people who ask seem pleasantly surprised by that answer and indicate they'd be willing to try it.
And a busboy at a restaurant the other night insisted on following me out to the parking lot so he could ask alot of questions. He is hispanic and was concerned he might be singled out by the cops. Along with the 2A/OC advice, I also recommended he learn his other rights, such as 4A and 5A. You don't have to talk to police, and don't have to allow them to search. They can be persuasive, so just learn instinctively to ask "Am I being detained? Am I free to go? Am I required to allow you to (disarm me, search me, search my vehicle, let you in my house, etc) by law?"
But a few days ago an associate of mine saw me OC for the first time (we usually see each other at work) and he was very apprehensive. Maybe because he met me at a gas station to borrow a couple of bucks and it may have looked suspicious to others, both of us rolling up to the gas station a few seconds apart, an armed man exits one vehicle, hands money to the driver of another vehicle...you get the picture.
He kept asking "Why do you carry
that thing LIKE THAT?" He couldn't comprehend how it was legal. I just don't have a good answer to respond to people who don't understand the law doesn't GIVE you rights, it only RESTRICTS them. Whenever I try, I usually say something like "the law doesn't say I'm allowed to breathe, but I do so anyway," and my point is lost on them. My experience has been that I'm just referred to as a gun-nut.
That's OK with me. I carry a gun to protect myself and my family, not to impress, educate, intimidate, or worry about what others think. If a harmless insult intimidates me, what chance do I stand in a real threat?
Tim