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This is the wife of "Markand" responding, here.
When we were dating, I once weighed all the stuff in Mark's pocket, and even without the gun and a few other items (I lived in D.C. at the time), it topped 12 pounds. When I was young, I thought my dad carried a lot of "stuff" in his pockets, but my husband tops anyone I know. Even Inspector Gadget pales in comparison!
At the airport, or upon entering government buildings (obviously minus his gun, knives, pepper spray, etc.), he fills several of those little trays they provide you before you go through the metal detector.
And, there's another side to carrying all that "stuff," too. Many of those items that help to provide wonderful protection for him and me from other people, can be kind of dangerous to me, at times.
The cargo pants he wears, hide most of the stuff, so it's easy to forget that it's there. That becomes problematic when I want to sit next to him on the sofa. I just never know what I might get impaled on (from one of the items on his belt or in his pocket), if/when I try to lean next to him or curl up my legs on the sofa. So, if we're planning to watch a TV show or movie together at home, I now make him take off all that stuff and leave it on the coffee table!
--Deborah Jane