Caveman93
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So I decided to and enjoy my first Open Carry experience and thought my wife would approve of it.I was stopped at the door, pistol in holster,as she hesitated at the last moment and stated, "it wasn'ta good idea to openly carrysince people would see your weapon and would know you have one on you". I acknowledged her fears and I tried my best kindly explaining to her, "that's the point". On our agenda was a stop at Walmart and then the ice cream shop in Brier Creek. (Mind you all we both just finished watching the local news and were discussing the abnormal increase in criminal activities within the last 4 months. (Daily shootings in Durham, Raleigh, Break in's, Mall Riots,home invasions etc.)
Later in conversation, I mentioned that if she would like me to travel with her more often that a conceal permit would help alleviate her anxiety towardsme carrying my pistol and she could feel more secure as well as myself. (Which I am looking forward to do). She was all for the CCWP so I signed up for the class yesterday. Personally, I would like to conceal but open carry would be a great right to exercise as well. I would like to do this without friction from my wife though.
Has anyone else ran into this situation with their significant other? She makes a good point but I thought my point was just as well. What's the best approach to educate and comfort her about openly carrying? Any suggestions would be welcomed. Thanks!
So I decided to and enjoy my first Open Carry experience and thought my wife would approve of it.I was stopped at the door, pistol in holster,as she hesitated at the last moment and stated, "it wasn'ta good idea to openly carrysince people would see your weapon and would know you have one on you". I acknowledged her fears and I tried my best kindly explaining to her, "that's the point". On our agenda was a stop at Walmart and then the ice cream shop in Brier Creek. (Mind you all we both just finished watching the local news and were discussing the abnormal increase in criminal activities within the last 4 months. (Daily shootings in Durham, Raleigh, Break in's, Mall Riots,home invasions etc.)
Later in conversation, I mentioned that if she would like me to travel with her more often that a conceal permit would help alleviate her anxiety towardsme carrying my pistol and she could feel more secure as well as myself. (Which I am looking forward to do). She was all for the CCWP so I signed up for the class yesterday. Personally, I would like to conceal but open carry would be a great right to exercise as well. I would like to do this without friction from my wife though.
Has anyone else ran into this situation with their significant other? She makes a good point but I thought my point was just as well. What's the best approach to educate and comfort her about openly carrying? Any suggestions would be welcomed. Thanks!