Haha, I just feel stupid sometimes, asking dumb questions.
Everyone has to start at the beginning once. No big deal.
I'm interested in holsters, IWB looks good for concealment but I feel like I would have to buy the next pant size up.
Look at the Comp-Tac products online. They make some fantastic IWB holsters. I personally use the M-Tac.Also, I was looking at Blackhawk SQC for OC (which I plan to do a lot).
This is definitly the holster of choice among the OCcrowd (at least so it seems) I haven't seen much if any complaints and yet there are tons of compliments for them.I'm getting a XD 45 5" hopefully.
If you have the oportunity I would suggest going to a range that rents firearms and try out a few things. Especially for a first firearm, you will be much much better off if you get to try them all out and see what fits your hand best, what sights you like, and you might just find that gun made specifically for your hand. (Try a sig )
Just wondering like what are the basics that I should get along with the gun,
Ammo do people carry extra mags normally or do they assume you can end a confrontation in 14 shots?
People usually carry extra mags in case the one in the firearm malfunctions. If you can't solve the problem with the first couple rounds, it must be one hell of a problem. I was also looking at the Colt 1911, what is the "word on the street" on that gun. Am I going to need new holsters for that gun, or will my XD holsters hold that one too?
There are too many "words on the street" for any firearm type. For every person that loves one gun there is another that hates it... Oh and BTW there are many different models of 1911 made by colt... So you would have to search and ask on each one you were interested in. And yes, you would need a new holster, new extra mags and so on and so forth.
How much am I looking at with the gun to get fully set (good comfortable holsters for OC and Concealment)
This is all going to depend on what holsters you go with, where you get them from, how many mags you buy... It could be anywhere from just the price of your gun(I think XDs come with a holsterto startwith) to hundreds more. I paid about $130for my holsters for my sig p226.What is a fair price for the XD, new in the box?
You can get one for easily under $500. That is with the holster, mag carrier and couple mags. NIB.I know some of the pics I see come with two extra mags, and some sort of case and a box.
Should I get a safe? What safes are good safes?
Depends... Do you have kids? Are you going to leave it at home during the day (work that won't let you carry). If no to both, you probably will have it with you during the day and by your side at night, so no real reasons for a safe.
So many questions