deepdiver wrote:
It takes two to tango and there is more than one member here more than willing to dance for as long as Vic is and sometimes after Vic is finished. And there are people who do not attract much ire from Vic directly who are part of the provocations in more subtle ways. I guess what I am saying is that if I were an admin/mod of OCDO I would be talking to more than just Vic about thread hijacks and rude comments and I'll add that I think I could make more productive headway with Vic than some his detractors. SNIP...
While I am posting this off of a quote from Deepdiver, I want to be clear that he is not the target of anything I might say, he just provided a convenient comment to say it from.
I could not agree with this comment more. In principal I agree with what NitroVic is trying to do in so far as that goal is to reduce INAPPROPRIATE LEO bashing. But I strongly disagree with his methods, and the intentional derailing of thread after thread.
Is he alone in this? NO! In my OP I pointed to that issue, but since the list of potential people is now so huge it would be difficult to list all of them. They know who they are and it is a divergent group. But they all do have one thing in common that can be used to draw them to a single place to talk, and that is NitroVic.
You might notice that most of the individuals you might put into this group are here on this thread, or they are reading it. Moreover, despite complaints as to the appropriateness or usefulness of a thread like this, it seems to have grown very rapidly in both viewership and postings count. Some threads never get this big and even an interesting topic might take days to grow to this size. I interpret that to mean that the topic is either important to people on the forum, or they think there will be a fight to watch.
Look, the point of this thread was NOT to bash Nitrovic. It was to tell him what he was doing wrong, why it was wrong, and isolate the damage to a single place as much as possible. I am aware that he would take that as baiting, but that is his problem. There is nothing in the OP of this thread that he has not been told before by many people. Even some of those pointing to the this thread as inappropriate have actually baited NitroVic through the use of sarcasm or some other hit and run verbal assault. You all know who you are.
So here is the deal. If you cannot ignore Nitrovic and not respond to him when he rages and starts to destroy a thread, then at least ignore him in that thread and post your comments here in this thread. If he wants to fight, then he should come here to do it. If his goal is to be heard by a large audience then this thread will provide that. But there needs to be a LOT more self control on BOTH sides of the arguments.
Regards