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In the pistol arena, I have owned single actions (still have three), double actions (I absolutely despise the term "double action/single action" since by definition, double action pistols are also single action after the first shot), and double action only (DAO). While I love shooting my single actions, I will not carry one as long as I have a choice because I am personally uncomfortable carrying in Condition One. It's just me.
I do not care for double actions because of the dreaded first-shot-to-second-shot trigger action. Once again, it's just me. I have owned a number of double actions over the years, most of which have had decockers. But it's the two different trigger "actions" with which I have a problem.
This leaves DAO (Double Action Only). This action type meets all of my criteria for a defensive carry sidearm and I have own many of these as well and currently still own a bunch. While my primary carry piece is one of my Glock 23's, the DAO action type is best represented by my Kahrs.
Really the best friend someone has when trying to narrow down their choices for a carry sidearm is to do a lot of reading and research, ask questions, visit gun shows, and try to shoot as many different types as possible. But learning about a carry gun that fits your needs and your desires is most important. So many times it's the little things you don't think of when buying a gun that come up later when you are carrying it.
Gun people seem to be constantly in search of the perfect gun and since there is no such thing, a lot of time and money gets spent in this effort to find that which does not exist. I know, I've done this for years. So get the one that seems to best suit your needs and fits your situation, then practice both at the range for shooting, and in your home for drawing it and getting on target.
As for safeties and decockers, I have come full circle on these items. None of my carry guns has either of these. The fewer things that are on the gun (switches, levers, buttons, etc) the better for me. All I want to think of if I have to use it is to get it out of my holster and on target, ready to fire. Once again, that's a personal thing.