sictransitgloria
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Okay, so, I'm getting married in about 3 months. My fiance is taking some classes at a college that has a reputation for being, lets just say, liberal. In one of these classes she is learning right now about how "men and women are the same, society controls how they develop... movies/shows that depict men shooting and such make men grow up to be violent/feel the need to be "manly" and own guns" (this is onlyone example of all the thingsshe is'learning') I'm trying to make her understand that little boys fight, little girls usually gossip... (in general) from the beginning God intrinsicly made men and women different and the man's role is to be a protector and a leader, but this school is filling her mind with bullshit (excuse the language, but it is appropriate for the situation). I've been bumming because I really honestly don't want her to not respect (and love) the fact that I'm concientious enough to want to protect her and to take the steps to do so, but the way it's turning all of the sudden I just dont even know. We fight about it every day because she'll come home with something new she learned about how all Americans are racist against black people or something and I can't just sit by like a good fiance and say "oh, that's great dear!" I wish I could be excited for her being excited to learn, but I can't keep my mouth shut. I'm scared that A. I wont be able to get her to understand the truth about the agendas that people push and why they are destructive, and B. she'll want to teach our kids someday this sort of thing.
More of a freaking out rant, than anything, but comments are welcome.
Okay, so, I'm getting married in about 3 months. My fiance is taking some classes at a college that has a reputation for being, lets just say, liberal. In one of these classes she is learning right now about how "men and women are the same, society controls how they develop... movies/shows that depict men shooting and such make men grow up to be violent/feel the need to be "manly" and own guns" (this is onlyone example of all the thingsshe is'learning') I'm trying to make her understand that little boys fight, little girls usually gossip... (in general) from the beginning God intrinsicly made men and women different and the man's role is to be a protector and a leader, but this school is filling her mind with bullshit (excuse the language, but it is appropriate for the situation). I've been bumming because I really honestly don't want her to not respect (and love) the fact that I'm concientious enough to want to protect her and to take the steps to do so, but the way it's turning all of the sudden I just dont even know. We fight about it every day because she'll come home with something new she learned about how all Americans are racist against black people or something and I can't just sit by like a good fiance and say "oh, that's great dear!" I wish I could be excited for her being excited to learn, but I can't keep my mouth shut. I'm scared that A. I wont be able to get her to understand the truth about the agendas that people push and why they are destructive, and B. she'll want to teach our kids someday this sort of thing.
More of a freaking out rant, than anything, but comments are welcome.