Make sure you come out for the Henderson meet/ walkabout. I personally don't have a problem with the tats. I have a few but the only one thats visible when I'm wearing a shirt is my ring finger. With you living in Fabulous Las Vegas Tattoos are more accepted than say Utah. A couple of years I lived in St. George and it seemed that I received more cross looks with my goatee than when I OC here.
And with the "No Fear" shirts, all I can say at least they're not "Bad Boy Club" shirts....J/K. No offense to those that wear BBC.
But seriously you should come out to the next meet. Even just turning 21 you still won't be the youngest. One of our "members" that's been out on the last 3 meets is only 19.