Sorry to hear that but you made a good choice.
Too many of my friends date BHL's, then get suprised when my wife and I don't want to hang out with them. I'm not sure if older age and desperation is setting in with these guys or what. There is no punanny magical enough for me to put up with the liberal crap that comes out of these girls mouths.
Just remember everything happens for a reason and you are much better off.