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I haven't logged onto here for quite some time due to personal technical issues, and can't say that I'm happy to find this level of discussion here. Let me preface by saying that I am "that guy". The one that has dual 12" subwoofers in my trunk that are connected to an amplifier. I can, and have, shaken neighborhoods.
However, I do not do it at 2 am, that's just rude. Think on that for a minute, its "just rude." Its not very considerate of the feelings of others.
In my eyes, that made your letter, and your appeal to the manager (since they are doing this on private property he is a steward to), justified. When they continued to play the music at elevated levels during all hours (something I am unlikely to do, since I am more considerate than that) they showed you disrespect.
Being rude and disrespectful is not illegal though, so, in my eyes, contacting the police to enforce your personal views was uncalled for, and the results of those calls are exactly as they should be. There was no real crime here. No malicious intent todamage or deprive you of health, life, or property. The police were drawn away from more worthy pursuits, such ashammering down on that damnable OC crowd... who do they think they are anyway? Why goodness gracious, there ought to be a law against openly displaying firearms in public ! Its "just rude" they force us to see those scary things. "That guy" from last weekmade me uncomfortable... at least he listened to the manager I complained to at Private Mart and left when he was asked to.
But I digress.
In getting back on topic... Wait, I'm sorry... I just realized... Could it be they're both the same thing? Each case shows an example of the "nanny state" conditioning and high brow Gestapo tacticsresponsible for so much that is wrong in our society today. "Since Ididn't get the resultsI wanted, and I am offended, I am going to make that which offends me illegal... ...and I am going to make the offender pay!
Please understand sir, that while my message is harsh, I have noill will toward you, butI say all of this to make an appeal.Please Please PLEASE consider the full implications of your actions.
Now, in the spirit of teamwork, may I suggest an alternative course of action?
As I said I am "that guy". I enjoy having a heavy bass beat massaging my scalp asI drive. Were I to be accosted by the police for this, I too would be resentful. Here is what I know would appease me, and may provide you with some relief:
1. Go, in person, to your neighbors and apologize for mishandling what should have been a minor dispute.
2. Appeal to their sense of decency on why the music disturbs you at late hours i.e. "I have to get up at _a.m. forwork, and when the music wakes me I have trouble falling back to sleep, which is making it hard for me to get moving when I need to."
3. Suggest a compromise: "I'll quit complaining about the daytime noise since you obviously enjoy it, but would it be possible to..."
4. Thank them if they agree. If they tell you to <graphically stimulate> yourself, keep cool, thank them anyway for simply listening, and give it two weeks. They may think on what you said and tone it down on their own anyway.
5. If, at the end of two weeks there is still a problem (and one you feel worth fighting over), contact the community owner, not the manager, and complain that the manager is ignoring his stweardship, and with itthe reasonable expectation you have of a peaceful community. Give it another two weeks to see if any changes are effected. If not, do what I did to my loud neighbors...
... Visibly clean, load, and OC your pistol as you stare back at them.
*Edited for spelling, grammar, and inflammatory content.