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swinokur wrote:
Sigh. I really am disappointed this has now devolved into personal attacks.When most folks run out of factual info, it usually devolves into statements like yours. I like civil discourse. Yours unfortunately no longer meets those criteria. You should try to keep things civil if possible. I'll stop now as rationale discussion with you is apparently concluded.
If by "personal attacks" you mean that I dared to have the temerity to call you out on your re-structuring of my original quote to fundamentally change it's meaning, then I am guilty as charged...
If by "civil discourse" you mean using tactics such as misquoting people and then building straw man arguments around those misquotes (like you did), then I want no part of that.
I refuse to cater to the intellectual dishonesty of people who are obviously here to try and pick verbal fights.
I refuse to allow falsehood, fabrication, and slander go unchallenged and unnoticed.
I refuse to cowtow to flame-baiting and trolling and ridiculous claims that I engaged in name-calling, or insinuations that I make things up, ESPECIALLY when the person making such claims is doing that EXACT thing to me in some sort of passive-aggressive attempt to make ME look like the "bad guy".
I have no issue with anyone who legitimately calls me out on a factual error.
What I have a HUGE problem with is people who twist my words to fabricate a non-existent position, and then try to paint ME as some sort of liar, bully, and knee-jerk flamer--as retaliation against me because I have the spine to call out such fraud.
Name calling doesn't bother me when people do it to me, and if anyone will research this forum, they will find that the ONLY "name calling" I do are accurate descriptives, not meaningless invectives. Under most definitions of "name calling", providing an accurate description of something does NOT qualify. Just because a duck believes he is a swan does not make calling him a duck "name calling".
But I will NOT stand for being misquoted, and passive-aggressively labeled as a liar.
Standing up to and calling out fraud and deceit is NOT bullying or "name calling". In fact it's exactly the opposite.
I disagree with a LOT of people on this forum--Master Doug, Grape, the owners, all sorts of people. But I don't have to call them out like this because they "fight fair"--they use facts, quote people accurately, and they understand the basic rules of logic and rhetoric.
I'm not the only person on this forum that takes issue with you. There are SEVERAL people who have the exact same problem with your "style", and have called you out with equal vociferousness, and your response is always the same--a passive-aggressive retreat into victimhood.
You seem enthusiastic and creative and pretty intelligent too. But it's sad that you seem to only be here to start fights and then curl up in the corner and say "look what that mean guy did to me".
If the only way you can validate yourself is by picking fights and then claiming to be the victim, then I don't want to play anymore. It's not fun. It's just sad and tragic.
I feel sorry for you, really... But not much...
But you are right. This conversation is over. I refuse to discuss a topic with someone who is willing to intentionally fabricate non-existent quotations so they can try to then use invalid debating techniques in a passive-aggressive attempt to make me look like I'm the bad guy.