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I've been to El Paso four times. My company has an office there.
In each case, almost everyone I encountered both at work, and outside of it, were ethnically Mexican, and bilingual.
And the friendliest people I ever worked with. It was prom night when I was there last, and there was a lot of picture taking up there on Scenic Drive (recommend this by the way - stunning view of El Paso and Juarez). The kids were all dressed up.
I was waiting to ascend the stairs back to the parking lot, but they were blocked for awhile by a father taking pictures of his daughters and all of her friends. He spoke in Spanish to them the whole time.
When he finished, he only then noticed I was waiting to use the stairs. No big deal; I wasn't in a big rush.
He apologized profusely and then rhapsodized to me about what a beautiful night it was and how much he loved life.
I don't normally work with the people in the El Paso office so I don't really know anyone there. I was sitting in the lunch room, eating my lunch, watching television.
I'm management and most of the people there are union, and most are, as I said earlier, of Mexican (or Latin American) extraction. We do bilingual work in the building.
One of the union people from another table came over to me, said hello, and asked if I would join them, because I looked all alone there eating lunch by myself.
This is my El Paso.
And I have no problems with it. Mexican culture, as far as I've experienced it both traveling in Mexico, living outside of Tucson, and driving all around the southwest, is that it is far less incompatible with American culture than those who have a problem with it seem to indicate.
A lot of cute women. Emphasis on family and friendship. Great food. I'm a little iffy on the music.
No problems. It must be like when the Italians and Irish immigrated to the northeast and made New York and Boston what they are today.
I just don't get this "invasion" mentality and I've been in the thick of it for 11 years now.
Most people I have encountered who speak Spanish also speak English just fine, drifting in and out of the language as necessary, sometimes mid-sentence when talking to each other.
I have no problem with Mexicans, Mexican Americans, or immigrants. They deserve better than the government they live under.
I could say the same, for all of us.
I am sad that I can't drive down to Puerto Penasco anymore because I always have a great time down there. Last time I was there, the power kept dying because the generator kept kicking off. The poor guy tasked with maintaining the facility kept trying to get it to go back on. He was there for hours. He spoke no English but somehow we could figure out "try it now."
One thing he did understand was beer. Because it was hot.
Even with the language barrier, you get by.
Because people are people. And the drug gangs no more define Mexico than LA gangs define America.