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"I have a permit, but why are you carrying a gun?"

open4years

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I saw a friend today at Walmart. He said: "Why are you carrying a gun?"
I replied: "To exercise my 2nd amendment right and to p--s off Obama."
He said: "I have a permit too, but why are you carrying a gun?"

I said: "Its like a seatbelt; You never know when you'll need it."
He nodded and walked away, but I could see that he was still confused.
Frankly, I was confused too. Why would a permit holder not understand one carrying a gun? I was openly carrying, but he didn't address that. What could else could I have said in a short time frame?
 

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open4years wrote:
I saw a friend today at Walmart. He said: "Why are you carrying a gun?"
I replied: "To exercise my 2nd amendment right and to p--s off Obama."
He said: "I have a permit too, but why are you carrying a gun?"
That is where he lost you. He, and I doubt he is alone, thinks that all he has to do to exercise his rights is to buy a gun and register for a permit. No amount of argument in support of carrying would have changed his view that he was already, even while unarmed, exercising his right to bear arms. :banghead:

Next time it comes up try to address that point and it may go better.
 

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I've got a coworker who's like that. He wants to get a gun again, but he doesn't want to carry it (openly or concealed). He said he used to have a CHP, but let it expire. He believes it's actually more dangerous to carry a gun.
 

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eyesopened wrote:
I've got a coworker who's like that. He wants to get a gun again, but he doesn't want to carry it (openly or concealed). He said he used to have a CHP, but let it expire. He believes it's actually more dangerous to carry a gun.
It is, for the criminals anyway.
 

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A gun is like a condom... better to have one and never need it than to need it once and not have it.

My other favorite question from the liberal hippies is, "Would you actually kill someone?"

My answer is always:

If you saw someone you care about, or a perfect stranger for that matter, being mugged, beaten or raped... would you hit the attacker on the head with a baseball bat?

End result: dead or incapacitated attacker... same as if I shot him.

My gun just happens to be easier to carry than a Louisville Slugger... and reaches a bit farther.
 

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daddy4count wrote:
A gun is like a condom... better to have one and never need it than to need it once and not have it.

My other favorite question from the liberal hippies is, "Would you actually kill someone?"

My answer is always:

If you saw someone you care about, or a perfect stranger for that matter, being mugged, beaten or raped... would you hit the attacker on the head with a baseball bat?

End result: dead or incapacitated attacker... same as if I shot him.

My gun just happens to be easier to carry than a Louisville Slugger... and reaches a bit farther.
Don't bank on getting an affirmative answer to this question from some of these clowns. I have tried this same tactic a number of times and on occasion, run into the idiot who cringes or actually says they wouldn't resort to violence to stop a violent act. Most recent example of this was 16 days ago. The lady was from Boston and my example was if she arrived home early from work to find her daughter, who had just been repeatedly rape, in the process of being murdered by her attacker - would she use some form of deadly force against the BG to halt his attack? She cringed and then blurted out that she was a flaming liberal... no answer to my question.
 

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I don't think some people have a realistic grasp of what they will feel if something like this happens...

I don't know about you... but I have yet to meet a mother who would not go "Momma Bear" on anybody who seeks to harm their children.
 

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daddy4count wrote:
I don't think some people have a realistic grasp of what they will feel if something like this happens...

I don't know about you... but I have yet to meet a mother who would not go "Momma Bear" on anybody who seeks to harm their children.

Seriously, I think you are correct - except for the part where you ask them about it. There are a whole bunch of folks who profess the theory of non-violence and find it to be a deadly form of cognitive dissonance to consider there might be exceptions to their position.

Those folks carry the label of "victim". Many of them do so proudly.

Go figure.

stay safe.
 

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daddy4count wrote:
I don't think some people have a realistic grasp of what they will feel if something like this happens...

I don't know about you... but I have yet to meet a mother who would not go "Momma Bear" on anybody who seeks to harm their children.
I think you're right with the exception of the extreme nutcases. I have always felt that no one knows exactly how they will react to a deadly encounter until it's staring them in the face.. unless they've had a similar experience(s) before.

I suspect people who make these outlandish statements enjoy the perceived vaulted level of moral superiority they believe they project. They think that by them making these types of statements, they elevate themselves above the "masses". I think most all of them would either fall to the ground, quivering in fear and spewing forth bodily fluids or lash out beyond any thing they've ever imagined. I vote for the falling to the ground.
 

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eyesopened wrote:
I've got a coworker who's like that. He wants to get a gun again, but he doesn't want to carry it (openly or concealed). He said he used to have a CHP, but let it expire. He believes it's actually more dangerous to carry a gun.
In his case he is probably correct. He obviously does not have the mindset to react to a bad situation except to run or surrender and tat means the bad guy would get his gun if he has one.

If he is an otherwise good guy you just have to mark him up as another sheep for the dogs to guard because he wouldn't use his teeth even if he had any. I bet he stops to look at an accident but never stops to get out and help.
 

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He probably is remembering a statistic from several years ago that the anti-gun FUD peddlers were promoting... that owning a gun meant you were "3 times more likely to die from a gunshot wound"

I never did see any backup data to support the statement...

But since the majority of us have a zero chance of ever being shot... 3 times zero is still zero
 

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I assume you're talking about the report that came out last year. The "research" behind that study has been slow to come out, but I've seen several reports about how they arrived at those numbers...

First, they included ALL gun-owners (not just civilian citizens), which included LEOs and active-duty military, and included the death statistics of these groups--REGARDLESS of the circumstances of the death. What this means is that LEO's and soldiers who were killed int he line of duty are included in the "death statistics"...

Secondly, I've seen some reports (but no definitive documentation to prove it) that they included ALL gun-owners, not just lawful, legal gun owners. This means that ANYONE who possessed a gun and was killed by a gun was included in their statistics. This would include felons and other "prohibited persons", and even if their death was caused by the justifiable actions of an LEO or a law-abiding citizen acting in self-defense, it was included in the statistics. You will notice if you look at that report they don't say "having a legally-possessed handgun in the home" increases your chance of death, just "having a handgun in your home"...

They did not discriminate with the cause of death. If an innocent person legally owned a firearm and kept it in their home, and was killed by a random drive-by shooting, or a mugger while they were on vacation, or was "accidentally" killed by a botched no-knock raid on the wrong house, or in a case of mistaken identity, they include it.

Under this sort of "research", it's no wonder they arrived at the numbers they did. This sort of logic essentially says that the reason why cops and soldiers get killed with firearms is because they happen to own personal firearms in their home.

This study is such a joke that it barely merits comment. Their research methods and statistical collection, filtering, and processing methods are SO faulty and full of illogical associations that a grade-school student could see it's all a big fat lie.

One of the older studies on this issue, the 1993 paper published in the NEJM:

http://nejm.highwire.org/cgi/content/short/329/15/1084?ck=nck

arrived at the conclusion that if you have a gun in the house, AND you are involved in drugs or other illicit or illegal activity, then the you do have an increased chance of being killed in a homicide. Most people don't read past the "conclusion" of the summary of this report. But if you read the whole report, you find that the authors have a VERY slanted agenda, and seem to dismiss the fact that most of these homicides were of people who were engaging in illegal activites (gang membership, drug dealing, prostitution, etc), but then they spend most of the paper saying that it is because they own a gun that they were killed. Not because they were gang-bangers, or were selling crack, or were terrorizing their community.

As someone who is currently a Graduate student, and in up to my eyeballs in research, writing papers, and documenting my work, I find this article to be an embarrassment to the academic world, and NEJM should have had their accreditation as a "peer reviewed journal" revoked for publishing it. It's NOT academic research--it's brazen, fraudulent propaganda.

As Bob Dylan said, "You don't need a weatherman to know which way the wind blows."

IF you remove the deaths of criminals (who have established records) killed by other criminals (who have established records) from the statistics, the US actually has one of the lowest homicide rates in the world...

Personally, I think we should just round up all the gang members, give them Uzi's and a few truckloads of ammo, and then set them loose on some isolated island. That would fix a LOT of the problems we're seeing in this country.
 

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Just goes to show that you can spin statistics any way you want...

I was unaware of a new study... but 13 years ago the support data was slow to be released as well.

And then it never was.
 

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Where's the whistle-blowing emoticon? This is truly a thread hijack in progress!

Given that half to two-thirds of homicides by firearm in any given year are suicides, and the incidence may actually be significantly under-reported because of the stigma against suicide, any statistic that talks about how you are "more likely to be injured blah blah blah" is disingenuous. Statistically speaking, the person you should most fear is indeed "someone you know" -- yourself.

I find it ironic that the same folks who argue in favor of medically-assisted suicide want to deny the desperate a relatively safe (to others), cheap, quick, and sure way to assist themselves!
 

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open4years wrote:
I saw a friend today at Walmart. He said: "Why are you carrying a gun?"
I replied: "To exercise my 2nd amendment right and to p--s off Obama."
He said: "I have a permit too, but why are you carrying a gun?"

I said: "Its like a seatbelt; You never know when you'll need it."
He nodded and walked away, but I could see that he was still confused.
Frankly, I was confused too. Why would a permit holder not understand one carrying a gun? I was openly carrying, but he didn't address that. What could else could I have said in a short time frame?

A better thing to ask him (instead of the seatbelt angle) would be to ask him if he had a Drivers License. (of course he does). Then ask him (with a shocked expression and tone of voice), why he drives, because it's MUCH more dangerous to drive your own car than to walk or take public transit. According to the US DOT's 2008 figures, there were 37,313 highway-related fatalities in the US.

According to the CDC's most recent data (2004) there were about 29,569 firearms-related deaths, and over half (57%) of those were suicides (16,750).

http://washingtonceasefire.org/resource-center/national-firearm-injury-and-death-statistics


So if you're not considering killing yourself, it's actually almost three times more dangerous to drive your car than it is to carry a gun.

(and actually, the initial FBI homicide statistics for 2009 appear to show a SIGNIFICANT drop in homicides nationwide since 2008--down by 10%, and the homicide statistics have been dropping EVERY year in the US since 2006. So when we get detailed data from CDC on 2009, it will probably be closer to FOUR times as dangerous to drive...)

I just don't understand why anyone who has a drivers license would even CONSIDER driving their car--it's just TOOO dangerous... :banghead:



Statistics are wonderful...
NOTE:
I'm not sure where the CDC gets their numbers, because according to the FBIs Uniform Crime Reports and BJS's website, in 2006, the national total for ALL murders was just a bit over 17,000. I'm assuming there are a lot of different modes of murder--knives, baseball bats, cars, pushing people out a window. It looks like the CDC is not for "murders", but rather for ALL homicides, which includes justifiable self-defense shootings, valid police shootings in the line of duty, and "accidental", non-neglegent shootings that resulted in death--NONE of which are crimes. If we take the suicides out of the CDC's total, it leaves us with 12,819 homicides, which means, if we are to believe the FBI, only about 4200 murders were using methods other than firearms. It looks like the CDC might be "cooking the books" with some of the same statistical chicanery that VPC, MMM, and Brady use to arrive at their grossly inflated figures...
 

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Old Grump wrote:
eyesopened wrote:
I've got a coworker who's like that. He wants to get a gun again, but he doesn't want to carry it (openly or concealed). He said he used to have a CHP, but let it expire. He believes it's actually more dangerous to carry a gun.
In his case he is probably correct. He obviously does not have the mindset to react to a bad situation except to run or surrender and tat means the bad guy would get his gun if he has one.

If he is an otherwise good guy you just have to mark him up as another sheep for the dogs to guard because he wouldn't use his teeth even if he had any. I bet he stops to look at an accident but never stops to get out and help.
He's basically a good guy so I'm still working on him. I don't think he's a lost cause so hopefully I can turn his way of thinking.

He also claims to have done years of martial arts, but if it was me I'd still stack the odds in my favor.
 

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Things to ponder...
If you treat a gun like a condom wouldn't like that condom that sits in the
wallet for years fail when finally needed?
Could this not be the reason for the "owners gun" used to kill themselves?
Like any good women they need to be taken out and shown they are loved,
or woe be you when you want it.:D

I lost the point after "friend" how is it he just noticed at walmart you carry?
Anyone else see the rabid fox attack footage on the news?
He Kung Foo kicked the sh*t out of it but is still getting the shots now.
There is a need for stand off defense.
I'm watching it thinking what great target practice, good clear field of fire,
fast moving small target out to do you harm, what a lucky stiff if he had
common sense to defend himself.
 

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SouthernBoy wrote:
I suspect people who make these outlandish statements enjoy the perceived vaulted level of moral superiority they believe they project. They think that by them making these types of statements, they elevate themselves above the "masses".
This is the point where I say "If you wouldn't protect a child, you are subhuman" and walk away. Nothing disgusts me more.
 
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