Independence and Olathe are both good for me. It's funny here in the midwest that traveling more than 10 miles is inconvenient and "long distance" for many people. When I lived in California, I routinely traveled 60 (or more) miles for everyday social events.
I had a student in class the other day complaining about his commute. Since I used to drive 80 miles to work each day, I was curious to know how far he drove. He said from Harrisonville to Grandview... lol. I am always amazed how important it is for people to live within 5 miles of work here
That is no "dis" sir, just a funny cultural observation.
So find out where most people are and wish to meet and I will be there, anywhere around the metro, within a 60 minute drive of southeast KC.