I've long-since given up on trying to "educate" anyone else on anything else, who is isnt willing to take the info, or who hasnt asked for it.
On this matter, in particular, folks have their minds largely made up by the time they are adults. Unless/until something happens in their life, rarely are they otherwise inclined.
Those of us who "get it" get it well. Those who dont? We often refer to as victims.
Natural Selection takes care of the rest.