Welcome to OCDO and The Old Dominion.
There's a guy that used to be active on the board - Danbus - who regularly had fun with Norfolk and it's PD over OC issues. He sometimes seemed to use them as his Christmas Fund - they'd screw up and he's win another lawsuit against them. I heard he got married, poor fella.
Since that time it's been pretty quite. Even Harborfest seems to be safer to attend, thanks to another person who OCs around the city frequently. I can't spell Chet's name so will not embarass him by mentioning it.
VCDL www.vcdl.org may have some places listed on their gun-unfriendly list. Check it out and then while you are on their site join up. Also be sure to check out the OC meet-and-eat events that are regularly posted. Between here, the meet-ups and the VCDL table at the gun shows you should find out everything you want to know. And maybe some things you didn't want to know.