Haha, sorry for the delay, men. Was out visiting family over Christmas. To answer a few of the questions and give some input to those who gave advice, my OC experience comes from Washington state, where I lived rurally in the mountains, and don't associate myself with the left majority of the state. Military service took me to Colorado, then to Missouri, which sadly both those states took those rights away to just CCW as there is no preemption laws. To make matters even worse, I don't know what I was thinking, but had the most wonderful experience to live in Baltimore as well, where living there is like playing Call of Duty, but the only weapon you can use is a rape whistle. But good did come out of that, as I met my fiance there, and her parents are native and cultural Virginians, so we put all my career focus into Virginia due to family proximity, and complete state preemption of all firearms laws.
My fiance and I have found a wonderful church in Winchester that we'd like to settle near when married this year, and what we were told is that while Front Royal was my first pick as an outsider, I'm told it is experiencing some drug related issues in the area, and the schools aren't great. Most locals I've talked to have had high regards to the culture and beauty of Shenandoah county. Loudoun I'm not ruling out, but while I desire to be a land owner and die old and grey where I settle, Loudoun comes across as overly priced horse pastures, and I'm not that big into equestrian.
I'm really interested in learning more about what Peter said however, and that is respecting and adopting the culture and heritage of Virginia. I welcome any suggestions and resources out there to immerse myself in the area. Looking forward I will say to a lot of the living history on display yearly in the area. I'm sure attending some of the OC met ups can help in this regard as well! Thank you also for the info on the VCDL, totally sold on it.