Wow, I'm sorry to hear your wife isn't doing well and I wish her a speedy recovery!
Regarding the meet, I believe we'd talked about the Kirkland Starbucks on 85th right across from Petco (12209 Northeast 85th Street, Kirkland, WA 98033). I will go ahead and show up at 10am. It'd be great if someone wants to join me; if not I'll just enjoy my hot chocolate and read a book and we can set something up for next weekend. I hope to see a few of you there!