I'm not really sure what you're trying to say there, Moto.
But, I agree. Refuse consent--politely, verbally, refuse consent. If you think you might be cited, arrested, assaulted, or forced to comply, then you can always say you are complying against your consent because you think compliance may be compelled by force.
For example, "Officer, I will comply with your demand for my ID (while reaching for wallet), but I do not consent. I am only providing it because you have demanded it in a way that makes me think compliance may be compelled."