"De-Stressing" a gun sounds like some sort of snake oil remedy or other gimmick.
I dont know what type of Firearms the OP owns, carries. But for me Sig Sauer and Glock dont need to be messed with.
Hell, my 229 and 226 have a Stainless Steel slide that you could use to hammer down railroad spikes.
There is almost no metal in a Glock to be sure.
It's not a snake oil think at all really. It a big thing in machine shops that are trying to maintain a tolerance of +-.00001 or tigher especially, if you have harden the material before it gets sent to a customer.
Some barrel companies do random stress testing on the barrels they manufacture. Shilen is one of them I called and asked them about it they have only used thermal (IE they heat there barrels up to some temp and hold it there for a set time and proscribed cool down) de-stressing methods. They have stress tested their finished barrels. So if you buy a barrel and have it threaded (stress), tapered (stress), etc you should de-stress it once you have finished it.
Same with automotive parts. Valves, valve springs, engine block, pistons, piston rings, cam, crank, con rods, etc are manufactured in a high stress manner. IF you de-stress the parts either before or after install the engine runs smoother. Build an engine run it for awhile check fuel consumption. Have it de-stressed while in your car even and check fuel consumption afterwards. If you have the equipment then pull heads and check cylinder wear rates.
I was just asking who has done it with their handguns and how much they paid for it. If they liked the results etc.
I was pointing out that cryo-dipping is one method. While cryo-dipping is reported to work on may other things besides metals I know it's not cheap. I am focusing more on the metal question.