since9
Campaign Veteran
They don't always give us a pass.
Perhaps not. My experience is that my ex skated on 8 speeding citations, and three citations of totally wrecking our vehicles. She was a looker. During the same time, I got stuck with three minor speeding citations.
Seriously? I paid $350 from pocket for a couple mph over the limit, while she skated on multiple occasions of wreckless driving totaling more than $17,000 in damage. And she wasn't fined a damned cent, while my insurance bills went through the roof.
So, they may not always give you a pass, but in my experience from 1991-2001, they gave you a huge, whopping pass.
I didn't realize it until later, but the best financial decision I ever made was in not fighting her decision to divorce me. My insurance company agreed with me, and she's found it almost impossible to find insurance. I wish she hadn't, as she wouldn't have been allowed to keep custody. In 4 of the 5 accidents, our son was in her custody.