Back in the 1960's I heard a saying many times that illustrated the mentality of whom we speak of. It was "When in Rome, do as the Romans do".
You don't visit Northern Michigan then demand we live as you tell us to live, act as you want us to act, if you wanted to visit an area like your home town then stay HOME! Same thing goes when you pick a place to buy, don't expect those new neighbors to let you bully them to make their neighborhood like the one you FLED from.
It's such a simple concept, yet so few get it. Shall I use Dearborn as an example?
We have a problem in this nation, we do not stand on our ideals, traditions, and values, we surrender them to the first idiot who whines and screams that word "unfair" then genuflect accordingly.
If one has values and you know them to be good then stand your ground....
I moved here because I like the people here, odd as some might be, I wouldn't change them for anything...
I loved living in the U.P. and someday I'm moving back. It was like living in a small town in the E.UP. from Newberry to the Soo to Cedarville and all areas in between. It's a hard place to make a living at times but it's a great place to raise a family. Most people won't bother you because they just want to be left alone just like everyone else. Most people will help each other because they are all just trying to make a living just like everyone else.
I live in the Ozarks of Arkansas now in a town with many Chicago retirees and as said before why do people move to a new area and try to change it, they could've just stayed in the old neighborhood.
I tell people the only difference between the native born Yoopers and native born Hillbillies is the accent. Both are very friendly and both will do what they can to help and all they want to be is left alone.