What I would like to see more often is a mix of people at the OC meet-ups, and I am talking hetero, homo, Negro, Asian, Latino, Native, etc. The problem is--and this problem is present in 'my' community-- there seems to be greater pressure on groups other than Caucasian that they feel they need to choose between groups.
you forgot tattooed and pierced, and "not dressed for success".
as for the people in here saying they're getting harassed for color (and i don't mean this insulting, so for all you politically correct and sensitive people of whatever color), you know what the problem is. your BLACK.
like it or not, this world never has and never will get over racism. the problem is stupid parents who don't know, or refuse to educate their kids. when I lived in georgia, I worked at a fence yard, and the crew leaders son (who had friends of various different races) used to call me a sand ******. one day i asked him why he used that word, even though he hung out with blacks, latinos, mexicans and others. he simply replied:
get this
"i don't know........my dad says it".
and THAT is why it will never change.
you get harassed because you're black. doesn't matter how you dress, cut your hair or shave.
I get harassed because they can't figure out what I am, and apparently (other peoples words, not mine) I look "scary". nazimexicanhispanicblacktattooedbiker who know also carries a gun. that's what people see in me.
the people that will tell you that you are playing the "race card", and that it's "long over with", are most likely also white, and are part of the "clean shaven, respectable white colored" group that don't have problems with cops harassing them, and use "politically correct words" such as "african american", "negro" or other weird crap to hide the fact that THEY are afraid of you, because YOU ARE BLACK.
on the flip side, being black, I'm sure you are also fully aware that we both part of stereotypes. is it right to judge you for what other blacks do and how they act??? NO
is it right to call me a nazi because i'm german??? NO
is it right to call me a felon because I look like one??? NO (self induced, fine. still doesn't matter though)
is it right to hate all cops because we seem to only run into the ********??? NO
stereotypes man. they're everywhere. always will were and always will be.
but until the world ends, i say carry. better to be harassed an armed, then victimized and defenseless.