Doing my best to try and be there tomorrow. Mostly because I want some knotty pine bbq and coleslaw. :lol: I had no idea they had a place in BA to be honest, it broke my heart when the store burned in Sand Springs.
I'll be the fat guy with boots on and a carhartt shirt. So far I have not told the wife, so I might walk in and be able to say "look honey, all those guys have their guns on too!" She's the paranoid one and never lets me tuck my shirt in, so I'm usually more or less CC with the occasional peek a boo of the barrel/holster.
Meet n' greets are fantastic for reluctant spouses - gives them a chance to see others in a controlled environment AND develope relationships (share stories) with other spouses.
She may even get to see other females carrying. That has provided the impetus for many to take the plunge. Have you taken her to the range yet?
Several outstanding reading suggestions for her: The Cornered Cat and Armed and Female - both are written by females for females.