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HankT wrote:
Agent19 wrote:
HankT wrote:
Good job.
I'd suggest walking over (while not OCing) and chat him up.
Maybe apologize and say something like, "Hey, neighbor, I'm reallysorry if it ticks you off, but I'm legal. I just want to make sure I do not miss an opportunityto communicate as afriendly neighbor. We may not agree but we can still be good neighbors."Then shake his hand.
Take the high road.
They can find a happy medium without Radwood having to apologize or hide his firearm.:banghead:
I doubt it. I rather doubt it.
radwood's got a
combatant as a neighbor right now. Obviously, something to avoid if one is being
rational about things...
Sorry Agent19 but (except for the way she said it) HankT is right on this one.
radwood, she didn't say you should say you were sorry you did anything, you are sorry he doesn't like what you did.
You neighbor is in a box with this thing and he won't listen to anything while he sees your gun, so conceal carry it and talk to him. Who knows you might defuse a situation.
Ill tell you a story;
My wife and I were in a very fashionable Mexican Restaurant. We were with my daughter and her husband and a couple of our friends.
It was in the winter and I had my 1911 A1 in a pancake holster on my right hip and two extra magazines on my left hip.
When we were seated I took off my coat and put it over the back of the chair.
Our waiter was a young man in his twenties and we talked with him several times during the meal, with him always at my left.
We had completed our meal, placed our left-overs in the containers he had provided, paid the check and were ready to leave.
Our waiter was arranging plates on a tray set on a portable stand to my left.
I stood and turned to retrieve my coat. It was at this point that our waiter noticed my .45 and said"You've got a gun!"
My response was, "Sure, would you like to see it." My wife followed that with, "Yes you don't have to worry when my husband's around, because he will always have your back."
We continued to talk to the young man and quickly turned the whole situation into a learning experience for him about what was required to get a permit to carry a weapon, and how people like me actually made things safer for the general public.
In this instance, as well as many others, to numerous to mention, I have cared what other people thought and I have taken the time to educate people, as illustrated by this young man, who may eventually come more to our way of thinking.
Just an example of how you can turn a bad confrontation into a good one.
Tarzan