I mean this in the nicest way casper. You give up way too easy. Auto has said he would come if he can, (he is a good guy from my limited contact with him) and who knows, other might be more encouraged to attend also. Cross post on MGO/MOC / Facebook /.....Craigslist/Backpage (kidding on last two) but don't throw in the towel without giving it a fair chance. Make it a fun event and people will come. Doesn't cost a lot of money to have a good time. Been to some off the hook parties in southwest detroit as a kid. No one got hurt, everyone had fun and the neighbors would often attend. Fun is fun, try it , you'll be suprised.