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My wife wasn't OC'ing at the local Albertson's. I was. However, as this is about responses to women I hope it applies.
The fact that I was the one OC'ing didn't stop the cashier from harassing her. He did this after I offered to check a price for him, and jogged back into the store. When I was gone he began to repeatedly ask, "Is he a cop?".
My wife asked for clarity (She wanted to make sure he was talking about me; she didn't want to tell him I had a gun if he didn't already know), and he just continued to ask "Is he a cop?". She told me that he was aggressive about it. After confirming that he was talking about me, she answered, "No he is a civilian" (Double Doh!).
He then began stubbornly and aggresively repeating, "That's illegal". When she finally said, "He has a pamphlet that you can have when he get's back", the cashier stopped talking to her altogether, and proceeded to ignore her.
I had no idea what was going on, but when I got back I gave my wife the pamphlet she asked for, and she placed it next to the scanner, where it was ignored.
The experience was unsettling for my wife (his attitude was distressing), but hopefully the cashier at least read the pamphlet. Even if he can't stop being an arrogant jerk towards women he can at least be an informed arrogant jerk.
That's the gist of it. My wife would probably correct 20 things I just said as I didn't actually witness the above events, but it's close enough :?.
Edit: Grammar