... It all depends on ..., how you look, how you handle yourself ...
Gee, thanks for all your thoughtful insights (*******).Where is the "rolling on the floor laughing so hard I'm soiling my pants" emoticon/emoji?
Herohog and I are buds from way back when, so I can get away with making fun of his "how you look" comments. He's the homeless guy in a wheelchair on the corner with a sign that says (on the side he shows most of the time) "Please Help" to my homeless guy who sleeps on the steam grates in the winter.:uhoh:
If either of us invite you to perform a physically and sexually impossible act on yourself it usually means we like you. You do not want to know how we relate to folks we do not like.
But we do bathe regularly, and he has a saint of a wife who most of the time keeps him from being a total jerk. No worse enemy, no better friend.
As to "How you look," by that I mean, if ya are wearing camo or BDu's and ya aren't active military, ya are not going to make a very good impression and will set off more than a few perception "alarms." Same goes for pants hanging around yer knees, "wife beater" T's with yer ball cap turned backwards (the bill goes in the FRONT!) or just looking like a slob in general. Ya don't have to wear a suit, but ya don't want to look like a schlub either. Here is how I look when I go out in public these days: View attachment 12701 Not the picture of class and sophistication but other than my pasty white and scarred up legs, clean, neat and not offensive or scary (unless gimpy fat people scare ya) in general.