bohdi
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FogRider wrote:
I agree, a different perspective is not a bad thing to have, which might sound wierd regarding what I've already posted. There's a time and a place where things have value, even when they might appear to be contrary to what you believe. That doesn't mean they are wrong. Being able to understand that, without taking offense to it, I think is when people really begin to see and comprehend. With folks who have had similar expriences you do run the risk of a "brainwashed" mentality - however I think that people are still individuals with free will (my idealist side is showing) and can still make the determination on ultimately which road to go down even if they have similar experiences yet choose different paths and disagree on a subject. In my opinion that's where having a familiar background (bootcamp experience or similar) adds credibility to someone's arguement that is contrary to your position.
For example, someone who never has been in the military says the military sucks, and they base that opinion on no first hand knowledge, but what they read through various papers (marraiges break up, any number of negative things). While things happen, hearing that from someone who has never been in the military I havea harder time listening to. I'm not saying their wrong, I just suspect their point of view more, than say a vetern of 10 years who's wife cheated on him while he was deployed. Does that make sense?
FogRider wrote:
bohdi wrote:Differing opinions/experiences is one of the things that makes this country as awesome as it is. A different perspective is not a bad thing to have. All of my experiences and opinions are going to be colored differently than yours, in this case because I have never served in the military. Personally, I would rather have a debate with someone who has not had the same experience as me, as it gives me a chance to see a completely different point of view. It's one thing to talk to someone with a different opinion on the same experience, but I have a chance to learn so much more from someone with an opinion they have formed with different experiences.I relate to people who have been in the military better than I do to people who haven't.
Think of it this way, it's a way to make sure everyone has something, some experience, in common with each other that you can relate to. Sure we can all say we are citizens, but each of us have different experiences as citizens, and view our citizenship differently I think. Boot camp is a great equalizer in many different ways. Hard ships endured are shared, commaradarie is built, trust is gained (sometimes lost) between people that you share this experience with. Especially with people you normally wouldn't associate with outside of this experience 9 times out of 10. If you encounter someone else who's had a similiar experience, you can relate to them on a level even if they are a complete stranger and you have some idea of who they are and what they are made of.
Said another way, if I encountered an anti-gun person who had served in the military I know I could probably have a conversation, a meaningful one and know I would at least have a better chance of being heard and understood, than someone who never served in the military and spent their summers tied to tree's in California protesting logging and guns. There are two sides to this issue just like anything else. Pro's and con's like I said earlier, and it's probably an issue that like guns will be debatable forever.
I agree, a different perspective is not a bad thing to have, which might sound wierd regarding what I've already posted. There's a time and a place where things have value, even when they might appear to be contrary to what you believe. That doesn't mean they are wrong. Being able to understand that, without taking offense to it, I think is when people really begin to see and comprehend. With folks who have had similar expriences you do run the risk of a "brainwashed" mentality - however I think that people are still individuals with free will (my idealist side is showing) and can still make the determination on ultimately which road to go down even if they have similar experiences yet choose different paths and disagree on a subject. In my opinion that's where having a familiar background (bootcamp experience or similar) adds credibility to someone's arguement that is contrary to your position.
For example, someone who never has been in the military says the military sucks, and they base that opinion on no first hand knowledge, but what they read through various papers (marraiges break up, any number of negative things). While things happen, hearing that from someone who has never been in the military I havea harder time listening to. I'm not saying their wrong, I just suspect their point of view more, than say a vetern of 10 years who's wife cheated on him while he was deployed. Does that make sense?