Tomahawk
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Is this now a marraige counseling thread, or is it about home invasions?
Is this now a marraige counseling thread, or is it about home invasions?
Hahahhahaha!! :lol: :lol: :lol:Marriage IS home invasion!
That's an entirely workable solution.She knows I have it, she knows I wear it; we just don't talk about it.
If I were given any ultimatum, I'd call her bluff. In fact, I have been given them, and I have called her on them every time. I'm of the opinion that anyone who would use the threat of divorce to enforce their will on another is not somebody I want to spend my time with, regardless of the circumstances. So, my response is, "Well, you've got to do what you've got to do. Sorry it didn't work out." She can say, "I can't believe you're choosing x over me," but that's a red herring. It isn't about choosing one or the other. The point is, I shouldn't have been forced to make the choice in the first place. By demanding I choose, she's turned against me and thus made the choice for me.Honestly, if I was given an ultimatum
I don't blame you one bit. If I were starting over today I'd reject any woman who didn't get excited about OC and consider carrying for herself. It's much easier if you start off together. Although, to be frank, if I were starting over today I would neither get married to nor live with a lady friend, but that's another discussion for another time...Thing is, I don't want to have to work 12 years for something I want to have from the beginning and I consider it a compromise I'm not willing to make... one of those 'unmovables' for me.
Trust me, it's not the first time that's crossed my mind... and I'm not nearly as far along as most. "There's hope for me yet." as some might say.I don't blame you one bit. If I were starting over today I'd reject any woman who didn't get excited about OC and consider carrying for herself. It's much easier if you start off together. Although, to be frank, if I were starting over today I would neither get married to nor live with a lady friend, but that's another discussion for another time...Thing is, I don't want to have to work 12 years for something I want to have from the beginning and I consider it a compromise I'm not willing to make... one of those 'unmovables' for me.